The female skeleton undergoes significant material and ultrastructural changes to meet high calcium demands during reproduction and lactation. Through the peri-lacunar/canalicular remodeling (PLR), osteocytes actively resorb surrounding matrix and enlarge their lacunae and canaliculi during lactation, which are quickly reversed after weaning. How these changes alter the physicochemical environment of osteocytes, the most abundant and primary mechanosensing cells in bone, are not well understood. In this study, we developed a multiscale poroelastic modeling technique to investigate lactation-induced changes in stress, fluid pressurization, fluid flow, and solute transport across multiple length scales (whole bone, porous midshaft cortex, lacunar-canalicular pore system (LCS), and pericellular matrix (PCM) around osteocytes) in murine tibiae subjected to axial compression at 3 N peak load (~320 με) at 0.5, 2, or 4 Hz. Based on previously reported skeletal anatomical measurements from lactating and nulliparous mice, our models demonstrated that loading frequency, LCS porosity, and PCM density were major determinants of fluid and solute flows responsible for osteocyte mechanosensing, cell-cell signaling, and metabolism. When loaded at 0.5 Hz, lactation-induced LCS expansion and potential PCM reduction promoted solute transport and osteocyte mechanosensing via primary cilia, but suppressed mechanosensing via fluid shear and/or drag force on the cell membrane. Interestingly, loading at 2 or 4 Hz was found to overcome the mechanosensing deficits observed at 0.5 Hz and these counter effects became more pronounced at 4 Hz and with sparser PCM in the lactating bone. Synergistically, higher loading frequency (2, 4 Hz) and sparser PCM enhanced flow-mediated mechanosensing and diffusion/convection of nutrients and signaling molecules for osteocytes. In summary, lactation-induced structural changes alter the local environment of osteocytes in ways that favor metabolism, mechanosensing, and post-weaning recovery of maternal bone. Thus, osteocytes play a role in balancing the metabolic and mechanical functions of female skeleton during reproduction and lactation.